back to blogging liao~ haha ... it was a short break, and here i am, back and ready to blog.

"singapore girl racers" forum?? bah wat nonsence~ haha you said it beni~, i seriously don't believe that there are much ladies in singapore that are as "siao chia" [ mad about cars] as the guys lah, especially when its with regards to the more intricate and technical details of cars. most simply stop at the outlook, BHP, acceleration, etc etc. BUT, fret not lah, i'm quite sure that there are true female car fanatics out there, just that they choose to keep mum about; afterall, its the empty vessels that makes the most noise =P

anyway, with regards to the post on your significant other half, well there no real fix "answer" i guess? like you said, a couple with interests would mean that there are lotsa common topics that they can share and talk about, while another couple with drastically different ones simply means that they can expose each other to something new and exciting. in either case, i doubt that it'll be boring, especially if both party share the same love and passion for that interest/hobby, and for each other; doing that same thing together would bring it into a different light and your perspective would be ever changing. so its NEVER boring. as quoted from you, nothing beats sharing what you love with the one you love. BUT there is really no need for you to question so much about all this. it might be different for each individual, but personally my experience has made me realise that you can think and plan all you want about who the prospective other half might be like, but when love comes knocking on your door, you'll take hold of ALL the "criterias" that you set for yourself and have them thrown out the window, carried away by the eastern wind. thats the beauty of love i guess? true love is emcompassing and kind; it brings people together, be they similar in character or otherwise. and as you've mentioned in your closing paragraph, it take two to waltz and love is no different. it takes active participation from both sides to nurture and bloom; one party (lets call him/her A) can be burning with passion and brimming with love, but if the other (called B for example) remains aloft and chooses only to "receive" and not reciprocrate, the fire will eventually burn out for A and the passion extinguished. B on the other hand will only feel that A is not treating him/her as nice as before, start to complain and would then jump to the conclusion that, 1) A has a change or heart 2) A is having another relationship with someone else, or 1) + 2). thats how many failed relationships are brought about i guess? one side giving too much while the other gives too little or one side having too much an expectation of the other. go ahead and bask in the sea of love and in each other's company, but always remember to not take things for granted and not to assume too much. last and not least, remember to commit any relationship to God ya?